Reasons why Many Nollywood Marriages Ends; Joke Silva Reveals In An Interview.

The Nollywood actress recently reviews in an interview 'why Nollywood marriages ends'. In her own words.


'people say marriages are breaking here and there, fine. But the reason marriages are breaking up in Nollywood is because we are out there in the public domain. There are so many marriages breaking up among lawyers, bankers and doctors, and when you compare that to the number of marriages breaking up in Nollywood, you find that it is very small percentage. The fact is that social media is now our reality and it is having a lot of effect on the industry. It is not just listening to what is being said but to everything, the body language, the way things are said. The grace to have respect for each other is key. The grace to want to have what is best for your partner is important. If you want your partner to succeed. And it is a two-way traffic. It is not the woman continuously wanting the husband to succeed or the husband wanting the wife to succeed alone; it has to be simultaneous. If the two of you are working together, the sky is the limit. Experiencing violence, male or female, leave the marriage . Leave it because when you die the other person continue living. For me, whether the abuse is emotional or physical, please leave; and let each party get counselling works, but if not, don't come back. So, when people talk about 'advice' I don't know what advice to give because i am not walking with their shoes,, honestly. You tell somebody 'have patience' what if that person has been having patience, patience, and patience? Did I have patience in mine? yes. Did lose my temper? Actually, i think my son will say that i have very short fuse. So, I think what is key to any marriage is grace'